For the girlies (18+) looking to do fun things but want a break from drinking or totally sober!
2026 Events!
‘Bright Nights’ Sober Hang Out!
Weekly-ish Hangouts - Usually Thursday nights from 7:30-9pm
• Various locations in the South Bay
• Sober & sober-curious women/girlies/NBs - LGBT+ friendly
• Ages 18+ (we do some 21+ venues)
• Please let Jess know you’re coming beforehand so she knows to expect you!
Come kick it and talk about fun stuff, travel, ask questions, learn from others, spill some tea (love me some hot goss) and share what you’ve been working on creatively. Please note if you have questions about sobriety we can chitchat but this is not a recovery group vibe! Sometimes you need a break from therapy to go have fun :)
SJ City Dance Country Night @ SJ Museum of Art
Bombay Jam Fitness Class @ Mona Khan Company, San Jose/Cupertino
Bowlero @ San Jose
@ Filoli for their Halloween Night Festival :) Thanks to Stepy!
Nogi Brazilian Jiu Jitsu @ Heroes Campbell
Jess in front of an art installation
Boba @ Arisan Tea & Coffee House
Poetry Open Mic Night @ Willow Glen Library
Little Italy Festival @ San Jose
Stepy bowling!
Salsa Class @ Alberto's, Mtn View
State of Mind Slice House (Pizzaaa) @ Palo Alto
Boba @ Ume, San Jose
Death Meditation!
Jess' perspective on the 'death state' in the Death Meditation on July 31. Jess guides people through to the afterlife :)
Minigolf @ Urban Putt
Smitten Ice Cream @ Santana Row
Boba @ Ume Boba, Mtn View
Boba @ Pekoe Boba
Ethiopian Dinner @ Gojo Ethiopian